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From Separation to Stability: My Journey through Foster Care and Family Struggles

Updated: Nov 11, 2023

In the passage of time, my siblings and I were faced with a twist of fate that brought unforeseen misfortunes upon our family. We were dealt a cruel hand, torn apart, and forcefully separated, entrusted to the care of the state.

I can still recall the day they took me away from the familiar walls of my once cherished home. As the clock struck 7:00 pm, I stepped into an unfamiliar house, told it would be my temporary residence until a permanent foster home could be found. Three other children shared the same bewildered look in their eyes, lost souls like myself, as we tried to make sense of our new reality. A black and white TV droned on in the corner, playing "the invasion of the body snatchers," a haunting reflection of our own displacement. The night passed, and the next morning, I eagerly rose at 6:00 am, hoping to understand and adapt to this strange life. Little did I know that my early awakening would incur the wrath of my temporary foster parents, who believed I should still be asleep. Their harsh treatment only fueled my resolve to escape this place, where I felt like an alien in my own skin.

Thankfully, a compassionate case worker intervened, rescuing me from that suffocating environment within a few days. I was taken to the warm and welcoming home of Miss Cotton, an elderly woman whose embrace provided the stability and love. For two years, she became my foster parent, filling the void in my heart with care and affection. However, life is ever-changing, and soon my paternal grandmother entered the picture, gaining custody of me. She became the next chapter in my tumultuous journey, and I stood by her side through all the highs and lows. My father struggled with his own demons, finding himself behind prison walls in places like Folsom, Tehachapi, and Glen Helen, just to name a few.



Amidst the stormy seas, my grandmother remained my steadfast anchor, guiding me with unwavering love and support. As adulthood approached, I recognized the strong foundation she had laid for the person I had become. Reflecting on my life, I realized that though it began with loss and separation, it ultimately blossomed into a story of resilience, love, and the unbreakable bonds of family. The hardships I endured shaped me, and the people who entered my life taught me the true meaning of belonging and finding strength amidst adversity.






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